A 10-Year-Old Boy Gives Moving Speech on the N-Word

I once drew attention to a 10 year old boy, Dalton Sherman, and his crowd-raising keynote speech in front of 20,000 people. 

I have found another one: a 10 year old boy, Jonathan Emile McCoy, giving a most eloquent and well-structured speech on "The N-Word".  The calm, confident way in which he speaks with tremendous clarify gives a clear message enriched with references.

  

He ends with a great closing, “My name is Jonathan Emile McCoy and I approved this message”. 

Jonathan was also featured on CNN.

Here is one person's feedback on this speech:

1. Message/Power of that Message — It is impossible to miss this young man’s message. From beginning to end he stays on message, there is no confusion, no getting “lost in the weeds” or off message, and no question as to what action he wants his audience to take.

2-3. Presence/Poise – He may be physically small, but he casts a very large shadow.  His suit fits him perfectly, his outfit matches, and his tie is a great fit with his suit.  If he is nervous (and I am sure that he was) it doesn’t show.

4. Body Language – Jonathan is poised, his posture is strong throughout and he begins to use his hand at the 3 minute mark to accentuate points.  Jonathan never slouches and never sways — his small movements are deliberate and strong.

5. Eye Contact — Never wavers and never looks down.  Excellent.

6. Articulate – Easy to understand every word he says.

7-9. Tone/Tempo/Vocal Variety – Emphasizes key words and points.  His tone changes to fit both his words and his message.  His pace is very easy to follow and he pauses appropriately as well.

10-11. Opening/closing – Jonathan simply does not allow anyone to tune him out from the start. “Negro, African American, Mahogany, Ebony, Nubian…” Combined with the factors above, the power is incredible!  Eleven years old!  The power continues throughout, and his closing, “My name is Jonathan Emile McCoy and I approved this message” was great.

An aside – I would not advise putting a song in your speech unless you are an 11 year old wunderkind who can pull it off — the vast majority of individuals, me included, cannot pull it off.

Great job Jonathan – you are a public speaking/messaging role model for children and adults alike!

Source: http://www.matteventoff.com/11-public-speaking-lessons-from-an-eleven-year-old.html

Antonia Harrison is a member of Toastmasters International and helps people overcome the fear of public speaking through powerful Hypnosis and NLP, giving confidence and coaching on effective speaking skills.  Based in Portsmouth, UK, she helps people worldwide face-to-face or over Skype.
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Tips to Overcome Fear of Speaking to a Large Group

Most people have a fear of speaking to a large group. This is a totally normal apprehension. People may visualise the audience laughing at them, or shouting out. This is an extremely rare occurrence, unless you are a politician.

Most people listening to you are aware of the pressures you are under and would never change places with you.

These guidelines will help you to overcome your fears.

1. Know your subject. Read through your presentation beforehand. Read around the subject, so that you are confident that you know more than your audience, even after you have spoken. If you know your subject then you will come across in an interesting way and keep the attention of your audience.

2. Expect to do well. Your expectations are obvious in your body language. If your audience sees that you expect to do badly, you will do badly. Expectation is vital.

3. Look at your audience. Eye contact is vital if you are to judge their understanding so that you can change the pace of your delivery if necessary.

4. Use notes. You should never, never read your speech from a sheet.

5. Slow your speech down. This makes you appear more confident and enables your audience to take it in more easily. If you are talking more slowly, it is easier for your audience to maintain their attention and momentary lapses in their concentration mean that they miss less.

6. Vary the tone and level of your voice. This maintains interest. You should speak clearly and project your voice, rather than shouting. Talking quietly in key segments means that your listeners will need to actively listen to those parts of your presentation.

7. Avoid excessive body movements and gestures. Hand gestures can be used for emphasis only.

8. Keep your hands and thumbs visible. Holding your hands out, with the thumbs uppermost is a very powerful dominance gesture. Watch politicians speaking, they all use this gesture.

9. Rejoice in the endorphin high that you will feel when it goes well.

Antonia Harrison at Venus Speakers trains women in the art of public speaking and better communication.

Can You Learn to Speak Like 10 Year Old Dalton Sherman?

At 10, Dalton Sherman is a speech-making pro. Since winning a big oratory competition in Dallas, he has spoken at numerous churches and events all over Dallas. He was keynote speaker at an educational conference for 20,000 people on 25 August 2008.

“He has the ‘it’ factor,” said Dawn Blair, Dalton’s godmother. “Like Tiger has it, Obama. You can’t put your finger on it.”



Dalton’s speech was directed toward teachers. The applause motivated him, especially when he gestured and gave shout-outs to different neighborhoods, telling teachers to help children no matter where they’re from. “We need you,” he told them.

He was coached all summer focusing on proper diction and pronunciation of words. Ms. Redmond said she immediately recognized his big vocabulary when she began coaching him and he worked hard in response. Mrs. Sherman uses a worn book of her grandfather’s, “Natural Drills in Expression,” published in 1909, to coach her son on pronunciation.

Demonstrating, she reads a sentence. Dalton repeats it— “to dare, to do, to die.” He loves the book.

“I hope that I touch a lot of people,” Dalton added.

In June, he memorized the words. Then he practiced giving the speech up to three times a week at his family’s church, Concord Missionary Baptist. His mother and Ms. Redmond stood in the balcony as he practiced his movements and the built-in pauses to punctuate the text.

Dalton wants to be a news anchor someday, but he’s got even bigger plans. “Maybe after that, I’ll try to be president,” he says. “I want to be the next Obama.”

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Full text of Dalton Sherman’s keynote speech “Do you Believe in Me?”


If a 10 year old boy can learn how to give a speech in such a way, you can also learn. A local chapter of Toastmasters International can help you develop public speaking techniques sharing feedback of what was good and points for improvement. Learn from others. Overcome your nerves in a safe environment, learning step by step. The Competent Communicator programme of ten speeches will guide you through different challenges while you speak on topics of your choice. After achieving the Competent Communicator level, we go on to three advanced levels with a choice of 50 manuals as guidelines. Many professional speakers honed their techniques in Toastmasters, Steve Pavlina being one of them. We also learn to think and speak on our feet with Table Topics – impromptu speeches of up to two minutes. Toastmasters is challenging but also fun and social. 85 years old, there are nearly 250,000 members in more than 12,500 clubs in 106 countries!

Hypnotherapy can help you to overcome nerves, stage fright, blushing, anxiety or excessive sweating. I help to boost someone's self-confidence and then work specifically on the issue eg unwanted habit. Sometimes I include NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) for fast belief or behaviour change. I have helped many people with their fear and anxiety around public speaking.

Antonia Harrison from Personal Development in the 21st Century , the English Hypnotherapist & NLP Practitioner in Belgium .

Relax and Engage With Your Audience

We used to be told that to avoid nerves when public speaking, we should not look at the audience, but rather just over their heads. That way we would not see anyone and could just concentrate on what we had to say without the risk of being distracted.

I beg to differ. I find it most important to look at my audience. I scan the room holding eye contact for a brief couple of seconds with an individual to give the impression that I am really talking to that person. I see public speaking as having a chat with people I know. I want to be relaxed, loose and fluid on stage. I don´t want to stand behind a lectern, reading notes and avoiding my audience. That gives a boring type of lecture rather than an animated conversation. The people in my audience want to hear what I have to say so I want to talk to them, rather than above them. Rather than move from left to right and then back again, I scan the room holding the attention of someone in the left, the right and the centre. My eyes move from front to back. Of course, in a large auditorium, the people at the back may be too far to engage with personally but glance in their direction and they will feel that you are looking at them one-to-one. Watch a stand-up comedian working an audience. He might pick on a few individuals at the front for improvised repartee but will also look at all areas, even up above in the dress circle.

I always say to my students, "Imagine a room of smiling eyes." Your audience have come to be entertained, or at least informed. They do not want to be bored. Even a boring subject can be made interesting with some energy and creativity. Your audience want you to succeed in your communication so that their time is not wasted. Engage with them, make them feel as if you are talking to them alone. Really communicate rather than just speak. Yes, it is a monologue and not a verbal dialogue between two or more people but give them the impression that you are communicating with them one-to-one. It is most encouraging to see someone smile back or nod their head in agreement with something that has just been said. In that respect, it becomes a dialogue as people communicate back with their eyes and body language. In a training or workshop environment, they might be encouraged to participate, to contribute to the discussion or share their experience. Your audience has to feel comfortable with you to be able to do that.

The more you interact with your audience, the more non-verbal feedback you will receive making the stage a less lonely place for you. You will need to practice this as reaching out to touch a stranger with your eyes can feel awkward but with practice, it will become more natural and rewarding.

©Antonia Harrison 2011

Antonia Harrison at Venus Speakers trains women in the art of public speaking and better communication.

Stepping stones to effective public speaking

Public speaking is a great catalyst of influence. For you to be influential as a speaker, you have to set your targets in your mind and be sure to hit them as you deliver your speech. There are weapons you could use in order to achieve your aims and they are as follows: •

The power of eye contact

Sincerity is a great element in public speaking. No other part of the body could show it best but the eyes of course. As you speak in front of people, it helps to look at them. This is a way of establishing rapport to your audience and showing them that you are honest in what you are sharing with them.

• The power of visual aids

Not all people are willing to listen that long so, in order for you to retain their attention, it would be great to have visual aids like charts or others. Besides beating the boredom, visual aids could also help your audience understand your speech or your topic being discussed.

• The power of handouts

For your audience to remember what you have talked about, it would be a great move to give away handouts so that they could review what you have discussed and they could clearly understand the key points in your speech.

• The power of confidence

No matter how detailed your prepared speech is, ifyou do not have the guts to deliver it in front of an audience, it would only be a mere speech. When confidence is there, it would definitely boost a person’s heart though. When you have the confidence, you have belief in what you do and it would be sensed by your audience.

• The power of references

As you present your speech, it would be very effective if you cite names of dependable people and of course references like reading materials. These would strengthen the quality of your speech whatever your purpose is.

These are some of the stepping stones for you as a public speaker.

Venus Speakers specialize in helping women to improve public speaking, presentation and communication skills. Visit http://www.VenusSpeakers.com for more information and tips.

©Antonia Harrison 2011

Antonia Harrison at Venus Speakers trains women in the art of public speaking and better communication.

Who Are Venus Speakers?

There are many public speaking/communication courses available but sometimes women feel intimidated by working in a group with men. Sometimes the men take over. The women feel they cannot find their own style, volume, tempo, humour etc. VenusSpeakers are women who understand only too well how men can monopolize a training room, the stage, the conference room. Women need to find their self-confidence and marry this with public speaking skills. Just as some women prefer to exercise in the gym in a “ladies only” session, some women prefer to develop presentation and communication skills in a “ladies only” environment. Your VenusSpeakers trainers are women with public speaking training through Toastmasters and other presentations skills courses. Once scared to speak up in a meeting, they can now command an audience and share that knowledge with other women. Training is available in English and Dutch. Speaking well is a skill, comprised of several ingredients, which can be learned by anyone who cares enough to succeed. Antonia Harrison at Venus Speakers trains women in the art of public speaking and better communication.